Character is Action

Been doing some reading on character, from both sociological and philosophical perspectives. Here are some reflections on what I’ve read so far.

Developing good character is not the mere reading of manuals on morals and virtues; one must practice. The specification of the virtues is not just some abstract exercise; its value is in its practical utility. Aristotle was clear on this matter when he said the following:

The purpose of our examination is not to know what virtue is, but to become good, since otherwise the inquiry would be of no benefit to us. And so we must examine the right ways of acting.

Reflecting on ideals is a step toward become people who practice good morals. Doris (1998, 512) says that “through reflection on moral exemplars, we may improve our own character and conduct.” In Islam, reflection involves reading about the life of the Prophet Muhammad, who is said to have the most perfect character and is the moral exemplar par excellence for Muslims. Proof for this comes in the sahih hadith in Musnad Ahmad in which the Prophet is reported to say, “I have only been sent to perfect good moral character.” Common sense says that only someone with excellent character can teach others about how to develop good character.

I should add here that the Prophet Muhammad was not only sent to Muslims. In the Qur’an, God says, “And We have not sent you, [O Muhammad], except as a mercy to the worlds” (21: 107). Anybody and everybody can benefit from learning about his behaviour in various situations: through sadness, trial, joy, marriage, friendship, fatherhood, as a leader, as an orphan, as a worshipper of God. Hence, the beauty of the Prophet’s story is that any Tom, Dick, or Harry can relate to him.

May God grant us good character. May we have beautiful manners like the Prophet Muhammad. Aameen.